Some parents, with all the illusion in the world, post photos of children on social media, even before birth: they share the photo of the pregnancy test, the first ultrasound and the 3D and 4D ultrasounds ... In this way, I know the circumstance that, even before birth, children already have a whole album full available on the internet. And of course after being born the publications multiply! What leads parents to act this way? What moves them to do it?
Events as important as the loss of the umbilical cord, the first steps or the loss of the first teeth are accompanied by their own graphic document on the parents' social networks. This, of course, is not reprehensible, but do we know to what extent it can be delicate and even dangerous for children and for the family in general?
Schools are required to have parental authorization to upload photos of Christmas festivals or end of year, however, we ourselves are showing our underage children in accounts open to millions of strangers.
Why is there a need for some parents to publish the most intimate family moments?It is probably due to a need to reaffirm their happiness, hoping that, once the image is uploaded, friends will begin to comment on how handsome their little ones are. Or perhaps it is just to share those photos with other family and friends, but in that case, it is better to do it through instant messaging programs.
Sometimes we do not realize the impact that social networks have on the safety of children and teenagers. Very often we find ourselves with the problem of inadequate access to the network in their own homes, without adequate parental control or without validating the photos that their children upload to their Instagram account. Gestures as naive as uploading a photo on the beach or in the bathroom can end up in unwanted pages.
Our children, in some way or another, are our own reflection, if we exercise the use of social networks responsibly, they will do it in the same way. It is very important that we know how to manage our family photos, but it is more important that we explain it to our children.
Sometimes we are not aware that in the background of a photograph you can read the license plate of our car or the sign of our street. Nor do we realize the number of times we are saying that we are on vacation leaving the house empty, giving facilities to thieves.
Another reflection on these publications is that, although we believe that while they are minors we are the protectors of their privacy, they may not want in the future that their most intimate moments are disseminated outside the family circle or of the closest friends and surely there are photos of which they are ashamed with the years. Imagine that your old photo album was in full view of the world!
For all this, we publish a series of tips from the Internet Users Association that can come in handy when it comes to posting photos with your family:
1. In your social network in the security settings, make sure your profile is private and limit to the maximum the diffusion that you are going to give to the images.
2. Do not tag the images with the real name of the minors so that they are not indexed in search engines.
3. Never post photos of scantily clad children, even in a bathing suit. Those images can fall into the hands of child pornography networks.
4. Don't give clues. Review the images before disseminating them to verify that there are no details of the place where they were taken, for example, plaques with street names or posters with the name of the educational center they attend. Don't spread their routines like the times or places where they take their extracurricular activities either.
5. Ask for permission. Whether the image is of your child, or if you are going to share images in which the minor appears with friends, you should always ask both the parent of your child, as well as the rest of the parents.
Remember that if you like to post photos of your children, you are not doing anything illegal, but think that our most intimate images are not always of interest to others and ask yourself a question: Would my children like to see this photo published when they are older? You have the answer!
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